Human Library Event in Tallinn Explores War Fatigue and the Importance of Preserving Humanity

As part of Estonia’s Nationalities Days, the Ukrainian association Prosvita and the Mriya Art Studio organised a Human Library event at the library on Liivalaia Street in Tallinn. The event focused on emotional exhaustion caused by war, the challenges of supporting others and the importance of maintaining empathy and human connection during difficult times.

At the invitation of Anna Shulika, Roman Kikh participated as one of the event’s “living books”. The Human Library format encourages open dialogue between participants and invited guests, replacing traditional lectures with personal conversations in which visitors can ask questions, share experiences and explore different perspectives.

The discussion led by Kikh centred on the question: “How Can We Avoid Becoming Tired of Being Human?” Participants explored the psychological and moral challenges associated with prolonged war, including exhaustion from negative news, constant exposure to the suffering of others, repeated requests for assistance and the growing burden of responsibility.

Particular attention was given to the distinction between emotional exhaustion and indifference. The discussion highlighted that human resources are limited and that being unable to respond to every request for help does not necessarily mean losing compassion. Participants considered the importance of recognising the needs of those around them, maintaining meaningful relationships and allowing time for personal recovery.

Kikh also approached the subject from a biblical perspective, referring to the experiences of Moses, Elijah, Jeremiah and Job, as well as Gospel accounts describing the human fatigue experienced by Jesus Christ. These examples provided a basis for discussing personal limitations, responsibility, emotional struggles and the importance of rest.

One of the central themes of the meeting was the need to preserve humanity even when individuals lack the strength or resources to respond to every appeal for help. Participants discussed finding a sustainable balance between supporting others and protecting their own emotional well-being.

The event took place in an open discussion format, allowing visitors to ask questions, share personal experiences and engage directly with the invited guest on complex social, ethical and spiritual issues.

The Human Library event formed part of Estonia’s Nationalities Days programme. Organised by the Ukrainian association Prosvita and the Mriya Art Studio, the meeting provided an opportunity to discuss the impact of war on everyday life and the importance of community support, mutual understanding and solidarity.

Source: Roman Kikh’s Facebook post. This article is based on his published account of the event.